I think that when times are tough, and when you are feeling lonely and depressed, you dont need to jump into bed with guys to make yourself feel better.

Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.
--Khalil Gibran

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives; be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat; be honest and frank anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, people may be jealous; be happy anyway. The good you do today, people often forget tomorrow; do good anyway. Give the world the best you’ve got, and it may never be enough; give your best anyway. In the end, it was between you and God, it was never between you and them anyway.

--Kent M. Keith